Sue Buccowich

For those of you who haven't jumped over to my friend's website lately...please pray for Susan!!! She had her 2nd surgery a week ago, Monday, and she was released from the hospital 3 days later...this Monday, she was suffering from severe pain that Vicodin would not squelch...so...Mike called UCLA and at 4am he drove her there. In the ER they gave her Morphine, which helped for the pain and gave her needed rest. After many tests they eliminated bleeding and excessive swelling to be the cause of pain, and discovered that she had a slight stroke in the middle of her brain. I believe that she is still in the hospital so they can find out what caused the pain and stroke. Please continue to pray for her and her family daily!

Thank you!!!!

~JAYNE~

A funny thing happened at Radiation...

The other day we went to Jeff's daily radiation treatment and as we were talking to the RT I spoke of in a previous post (Joe) I noticed the name tag he wears around his neck...it read "Joseph Delaney" I paused a minute and said to my husband "did you see what his last name is?" Then we told Joe that our daughter was named Dalaynee...Dalaynee Jo...he about flipped his lid (NOTE: because his name tag read "Joseph" I didn't connect the complete irony until a few seconds went by)...we all laughed as our jaws dropped...below is a photo of DALAYNEE JO and JOE DELANEY!

We found out from others later that Joe's wife ran out on him and he is raising 2 daughters on his own...he seems like such a GREAT guy...the more I think of him, the more I believe that I need to invite him to our church...not a natural thing for me, so please pray for courage for me...there are a number of people that we've met in the radiation department that I feel we may need to approach...one girl comes to mind, her name is Jennifer and she looks to be in her late 20's or early 30's...she has been struggling with cancer for 3 years in her colon and bones...she is so thin and frail that she needs a wheel chair. We saw her a few times with what seemed to be her mother and then her grandmother...one day we couldn't help but talk to them, every since that day, her and Jeff seem to have this connection...he can't get her off his mind and she can't stop thinking out him either. We told her we'd pray for her and she returned the sentiment...we have been praying, but she's another one that I just feel we need to reach out to before Jeff's done with treatments...I have to be honest, I am more bold and have a new confidence since Jeff's diagnosis...obviously God is more real to me...but I still feel nervous to approach others about my faith. Anyway, I covet your prayers for this part of our journey as well as restoration of Jeff's memory and removal of the cancer.

Blessings to all of you!!!!
~JAYNE~

What I do when not working...

Happy Thursday!
Dalaynee and I went to our neighbors mom's house to swim this morning...very refreshing!! Jeff is just worn out from the treatments so we let him sleep in...then he got up to eat lunch and went back to lay down...poor guy, I wish I could take away some of his fatigue. Anyway, just thought I'd share how well Dalaynee remembered what she was taught in swimming lessons...


With arm floaties on, she would start by the steps (where she is in the above pic) and swim by kicking and dog paddling to the ladder (top left of photo) then...


as you can see above...she'd climb out of the pool and walk around to where she started in the shallow end to do it again & again...I was amazed and proud!


She was also pretty good at propelling herself backwards by kicking!!


These little girls are the neighbor's granddaughters...Ashley, and Hannah (in the middle). Needless to say, they had a great time and we'll probably do it next week again. NOTE: after seeing these pics, I think Jeff might pull himself out of bed and come with us next time...thank God!!!

His treatments and chemo make him very tired, but it's just not like him to sleep most of the day...and sleeping the day away makes him more tired and depressed. Please pray that I am able to get him to be a little more active without pushing him too hard. Tonight we go to Oasis, the prayer service at church...always an inspiration and blessing...even if Jeff doesn't always remember the service, he is able to remember that he was blessed!!!

Thanks for all of your thoughts, prayers, comments and cards...we are experiencing God's love through his people!!!!
~JAYNE~

The deed is done

Last week Friday we talked to Jeff's Radiation therapist (the guy that puts the mask on him before the treatment and we found out that if Jeff shaved his head, they probably wouldn't have to redo the mask like we were originally told...so Joe, the RT, told Jeff to shave his head if that's what he wanted to do.....

Right after treatment we headed the barber that Jeff has been going to for 15 years...the real deal, Neal...his shop is just like an old barber shop decor and everything!! below are the results of our visit...


BEFORE HAIRCUT




MMM...SHOULD WE JUST LEAVE HAIR ON TOP LIKE A MARINE??





HOW ABOUT A MOHAWK?????

"NAH! JUST TAKE IT ALL OFF!!!!"

PRESENTING...MY WONDERFUL CHROME DOME HUSBAND

PRETTY CUTE HUH????

~JAYNE~

Just some quick thoughts...

I was just sitting at the computer and decided to check our old "hotmail" email address...in there I found a few messages from some of the Van Hofwegen family after Jeff's diagnosis...I know, I know, that is the address we put in the directory at the last family reunion...so...that's the address that everyone has...anyway, just thought I'd give you all an update...our new address, if you don't have it, is jjnord@verizon.net.

Also, just want to put a shout out of THANKS to the Washingtonians who contributed to the meals for us!!! What an awesome surprise!!! We are looking forward to picking from the menu...all of them look SO good!!! You guys are the best!!!!!

Today marks Jeff's halfway point in radiation already...Yippee!!!! I notice slight improvements in his memory almost everyday, so please continue to pray for complete restoration.

My friend, Susan, will be having a 2nd surgery on Monday at UCLA...they believe they will be able to remove more of the tumor and then radiation and chemo will have a better chance of working on what's left.

Thank you for all the GREAT prayer support and love!!!!

For I know the plans I have for you declares the Lord,

plans to prosper you and not to harm you,

plans to give you hope and a future.

Jeremiah 29:11-13

~Jayne~