Sunday, June 22, 2008


If you haven't heard, my dear husband went to be with the Lord on Friday night. Below are all of the details for Visitation & Memorial Service etc. If you are unable to make it, I totally understand!

The viewing is on Wednesday from 5p to 8p at Del Angel Mortuary, 10333 Alondra Blvd., Bellflower 90706. The casket will only be open for the 1st hour.

The graveside service (open to whomever wants to attend) is Thursday at 9:30a at Artesia Cemetery, 11142 Artesia Blvd., Cerritos 90703.

And the memorial service is at our church at 11am with lunch following...15941 Virginia Ave., Paramount 90723.

Bless you.


Saturday, June 14, 2008

Just Dalaynee...

Here's just a few recent photos of our beautiful daughter I wanted to share...

The sleeping bag I spoke about earlier was even better on top of her bed!!!!

Being kookie for the camera!

She and her girls!!!!

Tuckered out after an end of the Preschool year carnival...painted cheek and all!!!

Dancing and singing in one of our last winter rains...very little the last 2 photos she's doing the hokey pokey!

Sunday morning before Jeff's last time at church! He told her he loved her and her mother...I teared up and took a picture!

Our neighbor bought this doll because she thought it looked like Dalaynee...she has been given the name of Lucy.

She came to me one night and said "Mom, I think I'm sick...I have all these red dots all over!" Thankfully it was washable marker!

Just thought I'd share some of the up times in our household as well...Blessings to all of you!!!!

Monday, June 9, 2008


The hospice we are using is called "Alpenglow - The perfect light at the end of the day" I found out that Alpenglow is the purple that is sometimes seen in the sky just before sun set or sun that is very coveted by photographers.

I've met with the RN and am very pleased...she is super kind and seems to know what she is doing...she was impressed with Dalaynee and the questions she had about Jeff...she will come here 2 times a week. Also I've met with the Home Health Care Aid, I really liked her too...she will be here 3 times a week to help with bathing, shaving, feeding or whatever I need so I get a break. And today I met with the Social Worker, again I am very pleased...she will be here next week again...she will help me with funeral arrangements, therapy for Dalaynee if necessary and various other things having to do with death. Alpenglow also provides volunteers to step in if I have to run errands etc... So far, I have been very blessed to have Andrew & Zack (my step sons) provide me much time away from the house to do whatever. It's proven to be good for Jeff, who sleeps most of the day to see very familiar faces if he does decide to get up!!

I am real good at coming off strong...but I have major melt downs when I let myself. It's just so hard to believe that Jeff is dying! But, my hope and comfort is that God has a least there is some reason for this!

Please just continue to pray for strength for us and comfort and peace for Jeff.

Thank you! May God shine on you today!